Hey there, Big Dreamer!! ✨
How's the day going? I deeply hope you are shining your light and doing what you love, wherever you are in the world. :)
But in case you're feeling a bit lost right now... (or have felt lost pretty much your entire life 😅), I got you!
Because maybe you feel like you haven't found your place yet. You don't know what you want, what you like, what you're good at (if you're even good at something), what to do, where to go next...
And you've probably tried it all: 9-5 jobs (in all their versions), side hustles, digital marketing, even starting your own business... but nothing really worked. None of it truly fulfilled you or made you feel alive.
And you just feel lost. That's the only word: lost.
If that's you, keep reading Big Dreamer... this post is for you.💛
WHEN YOU HAVE NO IDEA WHAT YOU WANT
Have you ever thought: "If only I knew what I liked, what lights me up, I'd go after it. I'd fight for it. But I just don't know what that is."
I know that feeling so dang well. And it's the worst! Because it's not that you don't want to take action, it's that you have no idea what action to take, because you have no direction! You feel like a cork floating in the middle of the ocean, drifting wherever the current takes you...
But I have great news! There IS something you can do to stop being that cork and finally have a clear direction (and actually do something to get there).
Because the truth is...
You already know what you want...
Wait, what?!
Seriously. You do.
Think of something you once wanted badly. A dream you really wanted to achieve. (Come on, I know you've had dreams 😉, even if they didn't come true.) Maybe it was a vacation, a specific car, a house, a job, a relationship,...
Now, tell me: why did you want it? Let me guess, because you thought having it would make you feel happy, free, empowered, joyful, loved,... Am I right?
Feeling is what's behind every material thing we desire. So, when you say you don't know what you want, or what specific thing would make you happy, you may be right. But that doesn't matter!
You don't need to know the thing itself. What really matters is how you want to feel. Do you get it?? I really hope you do!
FIRST THINGS FIRST
Step one is, always, knowing what we want. (Check out this post to learn the 3 steps to turn any dream into reality).
Usually, we name specific things like how much money we want to make, the company we want to work for, the kind of coworkers we'd like to have, etc.
But this time, we're doing it a bit differently. :) Instead of naming the things, you're going to identify the feelings. How's that sound?
Because as I said before, you may not know exactly what would make you happy, but you definitely know that you want to feel happy. Right? And that IS an outcome.
Let's do a little exercise together. :)
A little exercise....
Take a piece of paper and start writing everything that comes to mind when you think about how you'd like to feel in life. Write down everything. Every emotion, even every thought you'd be thinking in that life.
Don't overthink. Just let it flow.
➤ Let me give you an example: maybe you want to wake up every day feeling excited for what's ahead, totally in love with life, living in awe, filled with joy and love, having fun with every little thing you do, and feeling playful and free like a child, thinking: "I love my life so much", "I feel so, so blessed", "Thank you, thank you, thank you".
Do you have your list? Awesome!!
Now, from that list, I want you to choose the 3-4 emotions that feel most important to you right now and write them down on a new piece of paper. Then, pick another 3-4 thoughts that help you feel those emotions and write them down too.
That's it!! 🙌 This is your "what"!! Now you know exactly what you want. It's crystal clear, isn't it?
If you ever feel like you need extra support, please feel free to book a session with me. I'll be more than happy to help you make your dreams real. :)
And listen, I don't want you to start thinking about how your life is going to change, or what shape or form it's going to take. Instead, I want you to truly embody your new feelings and live from there, every single second of your life.
You're going to let the Universe surprise you with the opportunities, people, experiences,... that match the way you want to feel. Because let's be honest, who cares what they look like, if they make you feel alive, whole, free and totally in love with life?
EMBODY IT
It's time to embody your "what". To become it.
How? By feeling that way right now. All the time. No matter what.
I know, it sounds simple, but it's actually the trickiest part. Because your current reality probably doesn't make you feel that way. Let's say your new feelings are freedom, love and joy. But when you look at your life right now, all you actually feel is frustration, sadness, and anger.
That's when awareness comes in.
Here's a little experiment I want you to try...
For the next few days, (or even better! the next week), become the gentle observer of your inner world of thoughts and emotions.
Notice the thoughts that come up on a daily basis when it comes to your life or situation. They might look like: "I don't want to go to work", "I don't like my life", "I feel lost", "What should I do?, "Where should I go?"... write them all down.
Do the same thing with your emotions. You'll notice you tend to think and feel the same way most of the time. That's perfectly fine!
❤︎ Important note: do not judge what you see. Just observe.
Now comes the fun part. :) Once you know what's going on inside you, it's time to shift. Whenever you catch yourself feeling frustrated or sad (or whatever emotions you no longer want to feel), stop, and shift to your new emotions of freedom, joy and love (or whatever yours are).
Do you get the idea?
Do this over and over again. Because the moment you shift your energy (by shifting your thoughts and emotions), you shift your reality. That's just the law.
Everything you have in your life right now exists because you are attracting it through your energy (whether you like it or not). Your current thoughts and emotions carry a specific frequency, and your reality is simply matching that energy.
That's why when you change your energy... you change your life.
YOU DID IT!
Now you know what you want, Big dreamer!! You know how you want to feel and that's all that truly matters. Your only job now is to practice, practice, practice, feeling that way right now, without wondering "when" or "how" it will happen.
Don't look for it. Become it.
And when you start to see changes in your life (trust me, you will!), please reach out to me and tell me everything about it. You know how much I love hearing your success stories.
I'm here to support you, to walk with you, guide you, and cheer you on every step of the way. If you feel that you need more support and guidance from me, I'll see you inside my mentorship. 🫶
Sending you much love,
AneChoo
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